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                  plan  responses.  Take  your  time  to  respond;  silence  can be  a powerful
                  negotiating  tool.  Determine  the  logical  conclusion  of  an  idea  and
                  evaluate the possible reactions. Be concise and get to the point without
                  being blunt. Emphasize your main point often, and focus on the benefit

                  to the other party.
                         Understanding Negotiating Skills
                         Successful negotiation requires accepting the other person despite

                  differences  in  values,  beliefs,  education,  ethnicity,  or  perspective.  It
                  allows  you  to  consider  an  issue  from  all  sides  and  to  promote
                  understanding and interest in the other person without agreeing with his
                  point of view. Negotiation is a matter of choosing a solution to which no

                  one has an objection, so keep your personal goals from interfering with
                  the overall shared goals.

                         Listening Skills
                         Listen  attentively  to  enhance  creative  solutions  for  problem-
                  solving. The psychological benefit of being a good listener is that the
                  person  to  whom  you  are  listening  tends  to  be  more  cooperative  and

                  understanding in reaching a solution to the problem. The ability to listen
                  well will help you evaluate and analyze the situation. Because everyone
                  wants to be heard and to be understood, you can often effectively diffuse

                  a situation and have a desirable outcome.

                      ASSIGNMENTS
                  1.  Why  should  negotiators  need  to  express  themselves  clearly  and

                      concisely?
                  2.  What does non-verbal communication include?
                  3.  What does oral communication skills include?

                  4.  What is the difference between oral and non-verbal communication?
                  5.  Why  is  non-verbal  communication  so  widely  used  in  negotiation
                      process?
                  6.  Comment the following statement: “Successful negotiation requires

                      accepting  the  other  person  despite  differences  in  values,  beliefs,
                      education, ethnicity, or perspective.”
                  7.  Why are listening skills so important?

                  8.  What is the psychological benefit of being a good listener?
                  9.  Which negotiation skills are the most important for you? You may
                      use the figure given below.
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