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5.  Plan a time where one of you can talk again, or say that you'd
                                  like to talk again sometime. Perhaps you can talk online with
                                  the person.
                              6.  Pause  for  a  brief  response  and  then  say  goodbye  before  you
                                  hang up.
                              7.  Here's  some  examples  of  good  ways  to  quickly  end  a
                                  conversation:

                            "I'm  really  sorry,  but  I  have  to  go,  it's  dinner  time.  I'll  call  you
                             tomorrow, OK? (pause) Bye!"
                            "Sorry got to go, there's someone at the door, bye"
                            "Oh my gosh! [Insert name of pet, younger sibling or child here!]
                             Stop! You're going to kill yourself! Stop! Hold on!" [Hang up] If
                             they call back later or something tell that the pet/ younger sibling/
                             child  almost  fell  off  the  counter,  or  pulled  a  bookshelf  down  or
                             something similar, but they ended up OK, despite some bruises and
                             scrapes.
                            "Hey, I'm going to have to let you go because I have to get off the
                             phone."
                            "Well I  must be running up  your bill, so I'll  let you get on now,
                             take care, bye"
                       8.         Here is some examples specifically for mobiles (cells):
                             "Oh, I've got to go, my battery/credits about to go, sorry, bye" This
                              works  especially  well  if  you  can  make  your  phone  beep  first to
                              sound like a battery/credit low warning.
                             "Hello? [Pause] Hello? Are you still there? [Pause] I'm sorry, but
                              all I can hear is a sort of fuzzy noise so I'm going to hang up, bye"
                              This implies that the signal on your phone has gone and you can't
                              hear them, remember to ignore everything they say and talk over
                              them if you want to be convincing.
                             Just  hang  up.  As  long  as  you  hang  up  in  the  middle  of  your
                              sentence rather than theirs, they'll assume you were cut off. You
                              can always say you were going through a tunnel or your battery or
                              credit run out.



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