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  Explore        alternatives
                           Confirming                                “What if  ….. ?
                           Can  we  run  through  what  we‘ve      Be clear, brief and firm.
                           agreed on?                              Follow concession rules.
                           I’d  like  to  check  what  we’ve
                           said/confirm.                         Support speaker
                           I think this is a good time/point to     Wait till the Chair or your
                           repeat  what  we’ve  agreed  to  so       main  speaker  brings  you
                           far.                                      in.
                                                                   Follow  the  concession
                           Summarizing
                                                                     rules.
                           I’d  like  to  run  through  the  main
                                                                   Support      your     main
                           points that we’ve talked about.           speaker
                           So,  I’ll  summarize  the  important   -  Agree    (nod,    “That’s
                           points of our offer.
                                                                     right….)
                           Can we summarize the proposals
                                                                 -  Emphasize  (“This point is
                           in a few words?
                                                                     very important”)
                                                                 -  Add     forgotten    points
                           Looking ahead                             (“And we must remember
                           So, the next step is ……                   …… “)
                           We need to meet again soon.
                                                                 -  But       don’t      make
                           In  our  next  meeting  we  need  to
                                                                     concessions for your main
                           …..                                       speaker.
                           So, can we ask you to ….?             -  Listen.
                           Before  the  next  meeting  we’ll
                                                                 -  Don’t fill silences.
                           ……

                           We  need  to  draw  up  a  formal

                           contract.






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                                          NOT GETTING WHAT YOU
                                                   DON’T WANT
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