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RELIGION

                                A newcomer to the United States can ask an American about
                            religious  customs  in  the  country  or  the  area  where  they  live.  It
                            would, however, be very impolite to ask directly what their beliefs
                            are.  In  fact,  it  seems  like  the  only  people  who  discuss  their
                            religious backgrounds at any length are stand-up comedians, who
                            often  build  entire  acts  around  how  their  family's  religion  has
                            affected their lives.
                                Americans on the whole are fairly religious, and any religion
                            that has ever existed on this planet will have at least a few  fol-
                            lowers in the United States. Christian groups are the most com-
                            mon,  and  conservative  ones  tend  to  be  very  active  in  politics.
                            There  is  no  official  government  religion;  the  separation  of  the
                            church  and  the  state  is  one  of  the  basic  principles  of  American
                            government.

                                                       MONEY

                                When  it  comes  to  money,  it  is  considered  bad  taste  to  ask
                            someone  how  much  they  earn  or  how  much  they  paid  for
                            something.  Since  Americans  do  love  a  bargain,  they  will
                            sometimes volunteer how much something cost if they got it for a
                            particularly good price.


                                       POLITICS AND OTHER NO-NOS

                                Many  Americans  do  not  like  social  arguments  or  heated
                            discussions in the same way that some Europeans do. Therefore, it
                            is not wise to bring up the subject of politics unless you are reason-
                            ably sure that your comments are generally in agreement with the
                            beliefs of the other people present.
                                Americans  may  seem quite  willing  to discuss  sexual  matters
                            and  family  problems  with  most  people,  judging  by  the  huge
                            number of revealing talk shows on television. Actually, the people
                            who bare their souls on television shows are the exception rather
                            than the rule. As in most countries, sex is a very personal matter
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