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Once again, filtering can lead to miscommunications in business. Each listener
               translates the Message into his or her own words, creating his or her own version of
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               what was said.
                      Selective Perception

                      Selective perception refers to  filtering  what  we see  and hear to suit  our own
               needs. This process is often unconscious. Small things can command our attention
               when we’re visiting a new place—a new city or a new company. Over time, however,
               we  begin  to  make  assumptions  about  the  way  things  are  on  the  basis  of  our  past
               experience. Often, much of this process is unconscious. “We simply are bombarded
               with too much stimuli every day to pay equal attention to everything so we pick and
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               choose  according  to  our  own  needs.”   Selective  perception  is  a  time-saver,  a
               necessary tool in a complex culture. But it can also lead to mistakes.
                      Think back to the earlier example conversation between Bill, who was asked to
               order more toner cartridges, and his boss. Since Bill found his boss’s to-do list to be
               unreasonably demanding, he assumed the request could wait. (How else could he do
               everything else on the list?) The boss, assuming that Bill had heard the urgency in her
               request, assumed that Bill would place the order before returning to the other tasks on
               her list.
                      Both members of this organization were using selective perception to evaluate
               the communication. Bill’s perception was that the task of ordering could wait. The
               boss’s  perception  was  that  her  time  frame  was  clear,  though  unstated.  When  two
               selective perceptions collide, a misunderstanding occurs.
                      Information Overload
                      Information overload can  be  defined  as  “occurring  when  the  information
               processing  demands  on  an  individual’s  time  to  perform  interactions  and  internal
               calculations  exceed  the  supply  or  capacity  of  time  available  for  such
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               processing.”   Messages reach us in countless ways every day. Some are societal—
               advertisements  that  we  may  hear  or  see  in  the  course  of  our  day.  Others  are
               professional—e-mails,  and  memos,  voice  mails,  and  conversations  from  our
               colleagues. Others  are  personal—messages  and  conversations from  our  loved ones
               and friends.
                      Add  these  together  and  it’s  easy  to  see  how  we  may  be  receiving  more
               information than  we  can take  in. This state of  imbalance is  known as information
               overload. Experts note that information overload is “A symptom of the high-tech age,
               which is too much information for one human being to absorb in an expanding world
               of people and technology. It comes from all sources including TV, newspapers, and
               magazines as well as wanted and unwanted regular mail, e-mail and faxes. It has been
               exacerbated enormously because of the formidable number of results obtained from
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               Web  search  engines.”   Other  research  shows  that  working  in  such  fragmented
               fashion  has  a  significant  negative  effect  on  efficiency,  creativity,  and  mental
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               acuity.
                      Going back to our example of Bill. Let’s say he’s in his cubicle on the phone
               with a supplier. While he’s talking, he hears the chime of e-mail alerting him to an
               important message from his boss. He’s scanning through it quickly, while still on the
               phone, when a coworker pokes his head around the cubicle corner to remind Bill that


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