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TABLE MANNERS

                                There are a few rules that most Americans follow when eating,
                            which  can  be  different  from  customs  in  other  countries.  People
                            usually  wait  for  everyone  to  be  served  before  they  start  eating;
                            however, other diners may politely insist that the person who has
                            been served start before the food gets cold.
                                 If  your  table has been  served  wine,  wait until  everyone has
                            been served before you drink.
                                Americans  use  their  right  hand  to  eat  unless  they  are  left
                            handed. If you cut something, set down your knife on your plate
                            and put your fork in your right hand before you take a bite.
                                Any hand that is not being used for eating should be kept in
                            your lap. You can also rest a forearm on the edge of the table, but
                            never put an elbow on the table. Put the knife and fork together on
                            the plate to show the server that the plate can be removed. Do not
                            drink from a bowl, or lift it off the table.
                                Do not eat noisily.
                                Keep your mouth closed when eating, and never talk with food
                            in your mouth.
                                If you have to burp, apologize by saying, "excuse me." Try not
                            to burp at all.
                                Do not smoke at a table unless you are sitting in the smoking
                            section of a restaurant and everyone with you has finished eating.

                                                      DRINKING

                                For  the  average  American, drinking  is  very  much something
                            that is done outside of business. While alcohol is almost always a
                            part  of  social  situations,  it  is  not  the  focus  of  an  evening's
                            entertainment.  People  often  meet  for  drinks,  but  that  is  just  the
                            excuse  for  getting  together  and  talking  to  friends  or  business
                            associates. The amount that people drink has gone down quite a lot
                            in  recent  years,  and  it  is  not  considered  acceptable  to  drink  at
                            lunchtime on a workday.
                                The basic American drinking establishment is the bar, although
                            many other places are licensed to sell alcoholic beverages, such as
                            restaurants, nightclubs, taverns, and most sports arenas. Depending
                            on the type of bar, drinks are ordered either directly at the bar from
                            the bartender,  or  from  the  server  if  there  is  table  service.  Since
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