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              7.  Law  of  self-preserving  /  face-saving:  a  person  tries  to  maintain  his/her  communicative
                  balance  and  inner  peacefulness  by  transforming  irritating  information  into  calmer
                  information.
              8.  Law of communicative self-influence: a verbal embodiment of the idea or emotion shapes
                  and strengthens this idea or emotion. This law  is the bases of self-training in which verbal
                  commands of the person regulate his/her her mental and physical state.
              9.  Law of information self-emergence: if communicators do not have  enough information,  it
                  will emerge in the form of roumours.
              10. Law of criticism attraction: the more the person stands out in the group, the more his/her
                  actions  are  criticized;  the  focus  is  mainly  on  the  shortcomings  of  people  in  some  way
                  distinguished in order to drop them to the mediocre level the criticizer.
              11. Law of dissemination of negative information: negative information tends to spread faster.
                  People  criticize  negative  messages;  perceive  positive  messages  as  a  norm;  stop
                  discussing them.
              12. Law  of    information  distortion  (broken  telephone):  any  information  is  distorted  in  the
                  process of its transfer. Distortion is proportional to the number of people transferring it. The
                  reason for this is people’s subjective attitudinal interpretation of the information transferred.
              13. Law of emotional affiliation: people who experience the same emotions tend to join the
                  people who are in the similar emotional state.
              14. Law of the increase of emotion through their verbalization: interjections, verbal statements
                  of emotions increase them twofold. This phenomenon is used in PR, advertising, religious
                  practices.
              15. Law of emotions absorbsion through their verbalized release: when a person describes
                  his/her emotions to another person, these emotions are neutralized and are “erased” by
                  words (crying on one’s shoulder).
              16. Law  of  emotional  suppression  of  logical  reasoning:  being  emotionally  overwhelmed,  a
                  person loses logically valid reasoning. He/she is difficult to be persuaded by arguments. It
                  is advisable to agree with the person, not to challenge him/her, which will finally result in
                  decreasing his/her excitement.
              17. Law of communication rhythm: the ration between speaking and silence is constant: 1:23.
                  Any violation of this rhythm may bring about bad mood, poor health, stresses, anxiety.

                                             WIIO'S LAWS OF COMMUNICATION
                  1.  Communication usually fails, except by accident.
                         a)  If communication can fail, it will.
                         b)  If communication cannot fail, it still most usually fails.
                         c)  If  communication  seems  to  succeed  in  the  intended  way,  there's  a
                            misunderstanding.
                         d)  If you are content with your message, communication certainly fails.
                  2.  If a message can be interpreted in several ways, it will be interpreted in a manner that
                     maximizes the damage.
                  3.  There  is  always  someone  who  knows  better  than  you  what  you  meant  with  your
                     message.
                  4.  The more we communicate, the worse communication succeeds.
                         a)  The more we communicate, the faster misunderstandings propagate.
                  5.  In mass communication, the important thing is not how things are but how they seem to
                     be.
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