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15. What is a friend? A single soul hidden in two bodies (Aristotle).
                            16. I make a great difference between people. I choose my friends for
                                their good looks, my acquaintances for their good characters, and
                                my enemies for their good intellects. (O. Wilde).
                            17. I can't help detesting my relations. I suppose it comes from the
                                fact that non of us can stand other people having the same faults
                                as overselves (O. Wilde).
                            18. I like persons better than principles (O. Wilde).
                            19. …to influence a person is to give him one's own soul. He does not
                                think his natural thoughts, or burn with his natural passions. His
                                virtues are not real to  him. His sins,  if there are such things as
                                sins, are borrowed. He becomes an echo of someone else's music,
                                an actor of a part that has not been written for him (O.Wilde).

                            4.In  groups,    brainstorm  6  main  categories  that  friends  must  agree  on
                            (probably politics, religious beliefs, moral values) and place them in order of
                            importance. Explain your choice.

                            5.Use the following proverbs in situations of your own.

                            1.The best friends may part.  2.Friendship is not to be bought at a fair.
                            3.Be slow in choosing friends, slower in changing them.  4.A friend is
                            easier lost than found.  5.A friend to everybody is a friend to nobody.
                            6.A friend is never known till a man has need.  7.A friend is not so
                            soon gotten as lost.  8.Before you make a friend, eat a bushel of salt
                            with  him.    9.When  a  friend  asks,  there  is  no  tomorrow.    10.Short
                            acquaintance brings repentance.  11.To those we love best, we say the
                            least.


                            6.Discuss the following extract. What is your opinion on this point?

                                                                               From And More
                                                                               by Andy Rooney

                            "…  The  biblical  commandment  to  "Love  Thy  Neighbor"  was
                            probably  a  poor  translation  of  what  must  have  originally  been
                            "Respect  Thy  Neighbor".  Love  can't  be  called  up  on  order….  The
                            only thing neighbors have in common to begin with is proximity, and
                            unless something more develops, that isn't reason enough to be best


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